by Eiad Asbahi, Mindscape founder and CEO   There’s a relationship that keeps ending the same way. Maybe you’ve had the same argument with three different people. Maybe you keep ending up in relationships that follow the same painful pattern. You swore you’d never let yourself feel like that again; you promised yourself this one would be different. But eventually, you found yourself right back in the same place.   The instinct is to focus on the other person. Pick better next time. Read the signs earlier. Choose someone who