You know the moment. Someone asks you for something small, something completely reasonable, and you search around inside for a response and come up empty. You want to offer something, but you have zero bandwidth left to figure anything out. That’s emotional exhaustion, when the emotional effort of everyday life starts exceeding what you have… Continue reading Emotional Exhaustion: When You Have Nothing Left to Give
It’s one of the more disorienting experiences in trauma healing. You’ve done the work. You know exactly where the pattern comes from. You can trace it back to the specific dynamic, the specific person, maybe even the specific age. You’ve talked about it. You’ve journaled about it. You understand it with a clarity that… Continue reading Trauma Healing: Why You Keep Repeating Old Patterns
When people talk about regulating the nervous system, it can sound abstract. A wellness concept. Something that belongs in a meditation app. But the reality is that a nervous system that learned to stay on high alert can also learn to come down. The benefits of regulating the nervous system are real. However, at first,… Continue reading 3 Things That Get Better When Your Nervous System Regulates
